5 Ways to talk with girl online for the first time


We all know that girls love to talk to boys. But what do you do when you meet a girl online for the first time and want to send her a message? Well, don’t panic! Here are some practical tips on how to have a good conversation with her:

Send a message.

The first step is to send a message. This can be done through messaging apps on your phone or through social media pages like Facebook and Twitter. The important thing to remember when sending messages online is not to come across as too pushy or too forward, but also not boring or weird either. Try not to be too passive in your approach, but don’t act aggressively or overly aggressively either – this will only make it harder for her (and you) to open up!

Make sure your username is cute.

  • Make sure your username is cute. Use a username that is easy for people to remember, spell and pronounce. It should also be easy to associate with you because when they type out the word “username” in their head, they want it to come up with something cute or funny. Like this: [insert name here]!
  • Make sure your profile picture is clear and attractive. The first thing people see when they look at someone’s profile picture is always going to be their face (unless it’s someone like me who has no idea what I’m doing). So make sure yours looks good! If you have any friends who can give advice on how not-badly photoshopped my face looks like right now, then please do so 🙂

Ask her if she wants to meet up.

You can ask her out.567live

You can ask her to hang out.

You can ask her to go on a date with you.

You can ask her to go out for dinner or perhaps just grab some food at a restaurant and bring it back home where she lives (or does not live). It’s all up to you! The possibilities are endless—and so is the fun!

Don’t be pushy.

  • Don’t be pushy. You’ll come off as aggressive and needy, which will make the girl uncomfortable.
  • Don’t be too forward. If you’re too aggressive or pushy, the girl may think that she has to respond in kind to get your attention—but it’s better for her if she doesn’t have any idea what type of person you are until after a conversation has taken place on its own merits.
  • Be patient with yourself when talking online with a girl for the first time! It takes time for things like physical attraction and chemistry between two people (or even three) who aren’t already acquainted with each other beforehand; try not to get discouraged when things don’t turn out exactly how they planned out initially because this will cause frustration in both parties involved instead of building trust over time through good communication skills alone.”

Be genuine, polite, and normal.

  • Be genuine, polite, and normal.
  • Don’t be afraid to show your true self. It’s not difficult to talk about yourself; it might just take some time for them to get used to you as a person. Once they do, however, you’ll have no trouble making friends with them!

Don’t scare her away by sending messages too fast.

One of the most common mistakes people make when they’re trying to talk with girls is sending too many messages. If a girl feels that every time she sees your name in her inbox, it’s because you sent a message and not because you’re genuinely interested in getting to know her better, she’ll start wondering what kind of person she should be dealing with.

For example: if I see an attractive girl walking down the street and send her a message asking if we could meet up sometime soon – how much longer before they start taking me seriously? Is my offer sincere enough? Or am I just trying too hard? The answer is always “yes.” It doesn’t matter whether or not we’ve been talking for years; even after 10 minutes of conversation, our brains are still wired up like this (just ask any married couple). So don’t scare her away by sending messages too fast.


So the next time you want to talk with a girl online, just remember these five tips for making it a success. The best part about talking with girls online is that you don’t have to worry about them being shy or weird. They’re just like us, only online!